Crossdressing Birds of a feather.
You might know the expression, “Birds of a feather flock together.” There’s a lot of truth in those words.
Did you know, and I know you’re interested, that many bulimic teenage girls unknowingly connect with others with exactly the same affliction? There is some unspoken, likely subconscious, shared signal that brings them together. Understand, I do not for a moment suggest crossdressing is an affliction. However, the idea of people with the same behaviour being subtly drawn together is not such a difficult one to understand.
Before you wonder what this has to do with your desire to slip into a slip, or dress in a dress, let me explain. Subconscious communication is a powerful phenomenon. When you put on a very limited amount of a feminine scent, or a little eye make up, you are creating a subconscious trigger to people who see this. They may not be aware of what you are doing, but they respond nonetheless. That silent message before long draws people to you.
This has nothing to do with attracting ‘gay’ men. This is far more subtle. You will find people come into your life who are ‘people like us’. You will gradually find people gravitating to you who have a slightly more accepting nature toward gender fluid ideas. They are deeper and more sophisticated individuals; people like you.
Remember this is a process so gradual that it may not seem to be happening. However, one day you turn around and notice that you have a few people around you that are more accepting and drawn to the ideas you are excited by. This is a very primal, almost irresistible, process that takes place over a period.
Throughout the tasks and suggestions in my program you gradually move towards the use of a few behaviors and tasks that encourage this effect. If you’re in my program you may already be experiencing some awareness of the shifts in your life. Even how you feel about dressing may be subtly shifting into a more comfortable place.
No one is likely to walk up to you in a restaurant and throw themselves at you as a result of this particular phenomenon. More likely you’ll turn round in six months and notice what’s happening, and then say to yourself — ‘That Fiona! She’s not as silly as she sounds…”
Don’t worry, put the actions and tasks in place and before long you’ll find your circle of friends and acquaintances starts to include a few more people like us.
Now, when I think about myself — with Sebastian, Sylvester, Max, Bernard, Ali and god help me, even Amanda, I can see all those people do have a vague similarity in terms of their acceptance of who I am — even though each one of them is very different. Read more about each of them on my website at http://FionaDobson.com
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